We have gone to barbecues in Prague, to have merry banter with friends.
A female friend of ours revealed the following:
The normal rate of pay for a sugar baby is 9000 Czech crowns for a whole day or 296 British pounds for a whole day. It can be more money or less money. I say ‘rate of pay’, it is not normally considered to be employment. I think it is not prostitution. Although there are documentaries about sugar babies and one or two theorists put forward the proposition that a sugar baby is equal to a prostitute. And people (sociologists, journalists, psychologists and so on) fiercely debate against that proposition.
For example, the entrepreneur from Denmark- who formally served in the military for x.y.z years according to him. He used “Tinder” for dating, he met women, he had girlfriends- women really really stressed him out. So while holidaying in Prague he just likes to relax with me.
He agreed on not having sex with me. I agreed on no sex, just a standard social situation. Indeed he never even touched me, paid money on my behalf and provided allowance money to me to compensate for the loss of my time, knowing that if he didn’t occupy my time, I would have been teaching and tutoring in Prague on the basis of being paid hourly fees. He’s pretty empathetic. He didn’t want me to suffer economic losses and associated misery just because I decided to use my time on having fun with him, having a laugh, eating delicious curries.
So, if one or two sugar daddies from last year, or even the year before, are such losers, I don’t HAVE TO pick up the phone, when they call me, or try to call me. If I think that somebody is just a waste of my time, he’s a lost cause, he didn’t even get his own work together, I want to move on, and move ahead, that’s fine. The pity is that I wasn’t educated more about sugar babies. The pity is that I didn’t read enough of a book, or two, about sugar babies, the core principles.
So, if I don’t go out sugaring, I would be really stupid. It’s a sidey sideliney thing, a hobby; one needs to be careful as there’re loads of scams in the online dating world. Danger isn’t too far away, but then, I mean, I can end up in danger even just talking to the shop to buy a broccoli and three nuts bars. The sugar dating world never placed me in any physical danger whatsoever, and many sugar daddies work at the level of being the chief executive officer of a big corporation. That’s how they can afford sugaring. They might get really stressed out- sometimes they need to relax and literally sip a cup of tea. I have nothing against using my wit and dynamism to chat them up.
There are sugar babies who operate as sugar babies 40 hours per week. Yes, there can be many moral problems with that. But I also feel sorry for men who can’t get a beauty, not every man is ‘successful’ and ‘sexy’ like my boyfriend. Also ‘traditional’ dating is plagued by loads of problems: murder in marriages, domestic violence, alcohol abuse, betrayal, … …
If I go sugaring on average 4-6 hours a week, or less, it’d be worth my while- at least financially.
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